Dedicated to the Man who gifted me the opportunity to Become a Mother-
This is our family-
In Celebration of the 3 mothers in his life- Adam cooked dinner for the 6 of us and his parents yesterday-
Celebrating the mothers in his life. . . .
the one who birthed him,
the one who birthed his children,
and the one who takes care of him and his children.
When a man plants a seed inside a woman he creates a sacred partnership to birth a spirit into this world- the man and the woman are tied together in a contract for the raising of their child.
Whether the man and the woman are married or not is irrelevant. The important aspect is that in order for the woman to be the best mother she can to the children- the father must support and help to lift up the mother of his children. He is committed to take care of her on a spiritual/emotional/material basis. He has made a commitment to his child that he will provide for the livelihood of the child and the wellbeing of the child’s mother.
I am so grateful for the unconditional love that I have received from my children’s father. He has helped me to follow my calling, pursue my passion, create the healthiest environment to raise my children, and support me in being the best mother that I can for our children.
When we first moved to the land together after our separation I had a very hard time. I could not accept the situation for how it was, I wanted it to be different. I flung all my pain and hurt at Adam who stood there stoically and he patiently said. . . . .
“When you are ready to receive my love. I am here waiting to love you.”
Once I got over the mounds of bullshit that I had built up around myself as a means of defense and self-protection-
Once I let myself settle into the reality versus the preconceived notion of what it “should be like”-
Once I could presence myself into the moment-
I came to the understanding that Adam is an incredible man who is one of my biggest supporters in this lifetime.
He is the man that gifted me the opportunity to be a mother and
He has helped me in becoming a wonderful mother for our three children.
He has done a great job of taking care of the mother of his children and has taught me about unconditional love.
Thank you to the man who decided to join me on my path of motherhood. I am grateful to walk beside you as we parent our children together in Harmony.
Thank you Adam
Thank you to My mother Lindsay
Thank you to Pacha Mama
Thank you to the mother of the universe
Happy Mothers Day